Monday, December 21, 2009

I am That Woman!


I speak for Stonecroft ministries. The outreach groups you might know as Christian Women’s Clubs. The emphasis has always been to provide a non-threatening atmosphere where you can invite a friend and be sure they will hear the gospel in its entirety. Along with a delicious meal and a special feature; the event concludes promptly in an hour and a half. Even working women have found time to attend these luncheons. Special features can be anything from a fashion show to a first aid demo to a flower arranging demo. Last week I saw a gift wrapping feature and came away with tons of new and inexpensive ideas. The name for our groups has changed to Women’s Connection, but the message has remained the same. We’ve added topical and interactive talks which are very appealing to younger women and slowly the word is getting out. Most clubs offer free child care as well.

Often when I look out at the faces in my audiences I see mostly senior citizens. I understand that; they are the ones with the time. I never let that bother me. Because if I know one thing, it’s this. It doesn’t matter if you’ve gone to church all of your life, if you’re involved in a Bible study, if you’ve lived a good and decent life and everything seems to be going very well. There is always one woman, maybe more, who has never understood that she must individually receive Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior.

I have spoken at five events in the last week or so. I talked about a woman who thinks she has it all together, but deep inside she’s missing something. She’s searched for peace, for happiness, for fulfillment, for meaning in life and she’s come up empty because she’s looked in all of the wrong places. Church attendance won’t do it, reading the Bible won’t do it, making a meal for your neighbor won’t do it, nor will giving to charity. Then I tell them what will do it. After each event I stand at the door and greet ladies as they leave. Here is what happened at four of the events:

In Chino Hills a woman, who was a hostess at our table, has been attending these luncheons for years and she regularly attends church. She told me emphatically, “I am that woman you talked about!”

In Visalia a woman told me, “You had me all the way. I loved your talk and it’s helped me see where I need to change.”

In Temecula there were about 120 women gathered for a Christmas Tea. A young woman had invited her mother. Her mother used to go to church, but something happened and she hasn’t stepped inside of a church for over twenty years. For some reason she came to this luncheon with her daughter. I was told later, “Something significant happened at our table. She was really moved like never before.”

In Oakhurst a woman came to me with tears in her eyes. She said, “I wish my son could have heard your message. He’s nineteen, into drugs and alcohol and he says he’s too far gone. It’s too late!” I gave her a CD of my message and I’m praying for this young man.

There’s something else that I know. God promises that His word will not return void. When it is proclaimed I know hearts and minds and lives change. You can count on it.

If you're reading this and you feel like you could be that woman, please contact me. I would love to hear from you. I promise a quick reply.

judyscharf@verizon.net

Saturday, December 5, 2009

We've Come a Long Way, Baby!

TASTY COOKIES - Put hot cookies or doughnuts in a crock with the skin of an orange or lemon. It gives them a very delicate flavor.

BAKING POWDER - Two teaspoons of cream of tartar and one scant teaspoon of baking soda are equal to three teaspoons of baking powder.

PUMPKIN PIE - Pumpkin pies will bake a rich golden brown if a tablespoon of molasses is added to the filling for each pie.

NEW FLAVOR IN HAM - Those thick slices of ham that flank the ham and egg breakfast on Sunday morning will lose their salty tang and gain a new delicious flavor if they are treated in the following way: the night before they are to be cooked, lay the slices in a pan and cover with milk. Leave them in the refrigerator until morning, then drain and dry them with a cloth. Fry them quickly in deep fat. The milk that they are soaked in makes delicious gravy.

CREAM - Two quarts of milk added to one quart of heavy cream makes cream of sufficient strength when serving coffee to 100 people.

PEAS AND CARROTS - Attractive baskets to serve carrots and peas in may be made by baking pie crust over small inverted muffin pans. *

* Taken from 2002 Household Helps, Myers and Kellner, Publishers, Springfield, Illinois, 1933

Saturday, November 14, 2009

Ella Ann Brees


Is there anything better than a sweet kiss on a baby's soft cheek? Richard and I just returned from spending a week in Arizona helping Jennifer and family as our thirteenth grandchild was born. I held and rocked that little one trying to store up some memories.

Ella Ann Brees arrived on October 26, 2009. We spent a week with the family helping with meals, laundry, taking Madelynne and Connor out for hamburgers and shakes and then swimming at our hotel. On Halloween I took them to a local church's "trunk or treat" where they wore their costumes and loaded up on candy. While mommy rested I read to them a couple of nights before they went to bed and even tucked them in and gave them good night kisses. More memories to store up. The week ended way too soon, but Christmas is coming and we'll see all of them then.

Thank you Lord for this sweet little girl. May she, along with her brother Connor and sister Madelynne, be brought up in the nurture and admonition of You. May she come to know You at an early age, just like her brother and sister did. May all of them love You and serve You all the days of their lives.

Wednesday, September 2, 2009

Eighteen Ways to Feel Better


I've posted a note on my Facebook page, Eighteen Ways to Feel Better. Each day I give an idea of something to do that will make you feel better. I am doing each one along with everyone else. Last Thursday began with #1: Call a Friend.

I know that when you reach out to someone, you will benefit just as much as the recipient. So, I called a friend who I knew was going through a trial. She recently became caregiver for her elderly mother and her whole life has changed. She has to stay home more, has to get someone to watch mom when she's out for any length of time, she's physically helping mom with bathing and dressing and makes sure her meals are on the table. I know from experience that when you are a caregiver, your life is not your own anymore.

Not only that, but my friend has suffered from depression in the past and she doesn't sleep very well. Gets a few hours of sleep and then can't get back to sleep and sometimes is up at three in the morning. She told me some days she can hardly put one foot in front of the other.

We talked for about a half hour. I listened, gave a little advice, encouraged her, reminded her that what she was doing is very pleasing to the Lord. Then I prayed for her. I didn't think anything I said was very noteworthy, but I felt good that we were talking and by the time we were through she seemed a little better.

Add to the mix that she lives in the fire area and has her car packed ready to evacuate if necessary. I called her last night to see how she was doing and so far the fire is a few miles away and seems to be going in the opposite direction. We were about to say good bye and she said, "Judy, I want to tell you something. Your call last Thursday is the best thing that could have happened to me. I can't tell you how much it encouraged me and I feel so much better." She kept going on and on until I was a little embarrassed. I thanked her and we said good bye.

As I reflected on everything that happened I had to stop right there and thank the Lord for the circumstances. Me posting the notice and then doing what I was asking everyone else to do. Dear ones, it is not about us it's about others. When we reach out to others God is going to use that in a mighty way. Why not call a friend right now?

"Do nothing from selfishness or empty conceit, but with humility of mind let each of you regard one another as more important than yourself. Do not merely look out for your own personal interests, but also for the interests of others." Philippians 2:3-4

Sunday, July 12, 2009

A Lesson Learned, (Again)


I learned something today. Oh, I've known about it, but it's not natural, so I guess I have to keep getting hit over the head so it will stick. Maybe you've had the same experience. Yes, it's not natural to "consider it all joy when you encounter a trial." My first reaction is to moan and groan, within myself, to my husband,to my family and friends. That's getting old.

I begin my devotions each morning by singing a hymn and reading about the author and circumstances by which it was written. The hymn for today goes like this, HE GIVETH MORE GRACE WHEN THE BURDEN GROWS GREATER; HE SENDETH MORE STRENGTH WHEN THE LABORS INCREASE. TO ADDED AFFLICTION HE ADDETH HIS MERCY; TO MULTIPLIED TRIALS, HIS MULTIPLIED PEACE. It goes on with more encouragement.

And I'm thinking how I've failed the test. Many of you know I've been going through a little medical drama of my own for the past year and a half. Nothing serious. At least now I know that. I've seen several doctors and had every test they can think of and still no answers for my continuing and increasing "vertigo," for lack of a better description. It unsettles me, makes me feel weak and I just plain don't like the changes in my life.

Maybe you're going through a trial too. I want to share with you what happened to me this morning. I hope it will encourage you and give you strength, just like it did me. After singing the hymn this morning I looked at the verse at the bottom of the page. Then I found more Scripture and another song. Please, try this for yourself. God's Word is powerful and will bring strength and hope. Singing ministers to your soul and brings comfort and joy. Bless you my precious friends.

Read James 1:1-12
Reflect on: Psalm 28:7
Rejoice with singing: Blessed be the Name of the Lord *
Respond and memorize: 2 Corinthians 12:9

*Blessed be the name of the Lord, Blessed be the name of the Lord, Blessed be the name of the Lord, O God. (Repeat)

The name of the Lord, is a strong tower. The righteous run in to it and they are safe. (repeat)

Blessed be the name of the Lord, Blessed be the name of the Lord, Blessed be the name of the Lord, O God.

Have a beautiful day.

Saturday, July 11, 2009

New Granddaughters



I haven't told you about my new granddaughters!!!! Jessica 15, Miranda 13 and Karina 10 were adopted from Ukraine by my daughter Melissa and husband Jim. They arrived in the United States on Valentine's Day. How appropriate for they have stolen our hearts. I will be writing about them more and more as time goes by, but for now I wanted you to get a glimpse.

Saturday, June 27, 2009

Dear Ariana


I hope you will all enjoy this letter/devotion I gave at my new granddaughter's wedding shower. My grandson Ian married Ariana Briceno on June 13th. She is a delightful addition to our family and I love her to death.

Dear Ariana,
I’ve known you less than a year, but it didn’t take very long for me to come to love you as one of my own. You’re family now and I know it’s just going to get better and better. Today, it’s a real privilege for me to share some thoughts at your wedding shower. And what a unique shower it is, don’t you all agree? We’re going to have a grand time.
And best of all, you’re marrying my grandson Ian. I know you agree with me when I say he’s a sweetheart. I love him to death and I love being his grandmother.
I was there the night he was born. It was in High Point, North Carolina, a small hospital, not much going on that late at night except the monumental event of Ian’s birth. This was the day before cell phones and digital cameras. I was watching his birth, a camera swinging around my neck and the hospital phone in my hand. I couldn’t see for the tears in my eyes; tried to call on the hospital phone to tell the rest of the family in California and needed umpteen numbers to get an outgoing line. Try that with tears in your eyes. It was pathetic.
Later I went to the nursery with Ian as a nurse checked him over. I stroked his little arm and prayed for him; thanking God he was healthy and safe. I prayed that he would grow to love the Lord with all of his heart and if God so willed, he would meet his life mate who would be perfect. And here you are, Ariana. Can I tell you that prayer works?
Jesus said a long time ago, “I have come that you may have life more abundantly.” You can be sure I am and will be praying for you and Ian as you begin your lives together; that your lives will be abundant with love, laughter, compassion, mercy, joy and comfort. With Jesus as your guide, you cannot go wrong.
Let’s put this into practical terms. We’re all wearing aprons today. I don’t think women wear aprons as much as they used to, but the history of the apron is very interesting.
Many kids today, don’t even know what an apron is.
Grandma had several aprons. The principal use was to protect her dress underneath. She only had a few dresses and it was easier to wash an apron than a dress. Plus they used less material. Listen to the multitude of things an apron did:
It served as a potholder for removing hot pans from the oven.

It was wonderful for drying children's tears, and on occasion was even used for cleaning out dirty ears.

From the chicken coop, the apron was used for carrying eggs, fussy chicks, and sometimes half-hatched eggs to be finished in the warming oven.

When company came, those aprons were ideal hiding places for shy kids.

And when the weather was cold, grandma wrapped it around her arms.

Those big old aprons wiped many a perspiring brow, bent over the hot wood stove.

Chips and kindling wood were brought into the kitchen in that apron.

From the garden, it carried all sorts of vegetables. After the peas had been shelled, it carried out the hulls.

In the fall, the apron was used to bring in apples that had fallen from the trees.

When unexpected company drove up the road, it was surprising how much furniture that old apron could dust in a matter of seconds.

When dinner was ready, Grandma walked out onto the porch, waved her apron, and the men knew it was time to come in from the fields to dinner.

It will be a long time before someone invents something that will; replace that 'old-time apron' that served so many purposes.

Ariana, as you begin your life with Ian and you set up your home, I hope you’ll remember the aprons and what they stand for. May you be a wonderful cook; with an open home looking for lots of company. I hope you will be a gracious hostess always looking for ways to serve others. May you have compassion for others looking for ways to help. May you be a hard worker, resourceful and an encourager. When people leave your home I hope their one thought will be, “When can we go back?”
Dear Ariana, may you wear lots of aprons as you live an abundant life with Ian. When people see you and Ian, I pray they see the way a marriage ought to be. Oh you will have your ups and downs. We all do. But these can be overcome.
There’s a verse in the Bible that says, “An excellent wife is the crown of her husband.” I thought about that a long time ago and realized that a crown makes someone look like a king. You should do everything you can to make Ian look like a king. I promise you, if you do this, he’s going to treat you like a queen and you both win.